Saturday 14 May 2022

GOODBYE CHARLEY

On the 4th February 2022 I stumbled across the picture of an old friend, Charles Nabet, I knew in school between ages 12-14. I had not seen him in 66 years, but we became very close in school. I posted a blog about the occurrance on the 5th Feb 2022. At that age,  time moves exceeding slow, and I have very precious memories of our time at the Lycée in Montgeron in the mid-fifties. Charley and I have now started exchanging emails and we hoped to meet up in Espoey, in the Pyrenees, not far from Pau, where he now lives with his wife Ariane. He has a married daughter Claire Cooper, who teaches English and German at a University in the Vendée, an English son-in-law Stephen Cooper, and a son Frédéric who is a Vet living in Gap, in the Hautes Alpes. Dr Nabet works at the CLINIQUE VETERINAIRE DES ECRINS. 

 

Celia and I had plotted to do a mini Tour de France and visit with the Nabets on the 31st May. Sadly I received and email last night from his daughter Claire, informing me that Charley had died on the 12th May from a cancer he’d had for a month. The funeral/cremation will be on the 19th May in Pau. It is not possible for us to attend at that time. 

 

Having reconnected after all these years and so looking forward to meeting up again, it is a bitter blow. There is so much I wanted to know. He never even hinted that he was ill in our email exchanges. Thirteen weeks is all there was. I am upset and feeling rather fragile. It's just not fair.


 



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  2. Merci pour cette eulogie pleine de sensibilité.
    Charles était emballé à l'annonce de votre voyage en France pour des retrouvailles différées depuis... le lycée de Montgeron !

    Il était mon copain depuis 1964 à Toulouse où nous nous rencontrâmes à Supdeco. Depuis lors, ce fut comme "à la vie, à la mort" ! Enfin presque !

    Charles, dont le caractère (difficile) n'avait pas vraiment changé depuis le bahut, a eu une vie mouvementée et vous auriez passé de longues soirées à entendre sa... biographie !

    J'ai laissé un petit mot en souvenir de lui sur mon blogue personnel :
    VSOP (clic).

    Cordialement,
    Claude

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